Four Candles

There are 4 candles being lit, little by little melted. In the silence hear their conversation:

Candle 1: "I was peaceful, but people do not ask me again, I no longer useful, I'd better just turn off myself." Then the candle "kill him".

Candle 2: "I am the faith, I also no longer useful to humans, they never ask me again, I'd better not burn it! Then the "wind" blew out the candle 2.

Candle 3: "I was in love, but I'm also not useful for humans, because they always hated each other, even hate people who loved or who loved him, so I better just turn off myself. And the third candle was dead.

Suddenly a small child get into the room. Because the "face of darkness" the boy shouted, "Why did you die!? I'm afraid of the dark, "she said, sobbing.

Then the fourth candle said: "Young children, do not cry, long as there is me! Let .. we turn on the 3rd candle. "

Then the child took the candle 4. With the candle lit the third candle is dead, so the room became bright again, brighter than ever before.

It turns out the four candle is  H O P E.

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Everyone's Story of Grief

Life is always covered by many layers. We only see the outer layer and do not know the contents therein.

We'll just see, well .. businessman was great, big house, fancy car, very happy life. Though he was again full of life stress and debt, the hard work for pay only interest on the loans, all assets are to be owned by banks.

Couples who graciously attended the reunion was so harmonious and charming, Mark must live in harmony and happiness. Though Mark lives filled with hatred, accusing each other, betrayed and hurt, even already in the process of divorce and for the property.

See the young man, graduated from Harvard cum laude with a value of, definitely easy to work, a large salary, his life must be happy. And she got laid off already 10x, so the victim slander in the work environment. Already 2 months can not be a new job.

The young mother, always to the pub clubbing and discotheques, he had plenty of time, do not need to think about home work, really enjoy her life, she must be happy. Yet his inner hollow and lonely, her soul moaned, her husband never appreciated and loved.

View our neighbors son was big all, the father of her mother was allowed to relax and calm, they would be happy, but in fact their parents could never sleep soundly, her children do not worship, like gambling and drugs.


We are always deceived by the beauty outside and do not know the reality on the inside. Indeed all the family have a problem. All org had a story of grief. That's the essence of life.

Org Do not gossip about the problem, in fact anyone not want to have a problem but people did not escape the problem.

Do not complain because of the problem. Find the meaning behind all the problems then all problems will make life meaningful.

Do not compare your life with others, because others are not necessarily happier than you.
 

ShellFish

A child shells towing complained to her mother. Sharp grain of sand into a flabby body. "My son, God did not give us a hand, so that mothers can not help you. Mother knew, was ill, but take it as destiny. Strengthen the heart, spirit muster against a painful bite. swathe of sand that the sap in your stomach. That's all you can do, 'said his mother with a mellow and soft with tears. Children shellfish complied ... Sometimes the pain was so great, so she had doubts her mother's advice. With tears, he survived, not just day after day ....... but for years without realizing it, a pearl begins to form in the flesh. more and more refined. The pain was diminishing. the greater the longer the pearl. the pain eventually disappeared altogether. Now ......... a big pearl, whole glossy, high-priced and perfectly formed. sufferings produce stunning results. he has become very precious!
 

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All of our fathers

1. Father wanted his children have more opportunities than he did, face fewer difficulties, more is not dependent on anyone - and (but) always require his presence.

2. Dad let you win in the game when you were little, but he does not want you to let his win when you are older.

3. Father was not in the family photo album, because he is always shooting.

4. Father always precise promise! He will hold his promise to help a friend, although  your invitation to go actually more fun.

5. Dad was always a little sad when he saw his children go to play with friends because he realized it was the end of their childhood.

6. Father started planning your life when knowing that your mother pregnant, but once you were born, he began to make revisions.

7. Daddy helped make dreams come true even he too could convince you to do impossible things, like swimming in the water after he release.

8. Father might not know the answer to everything, but he helps you search for it.

9. Dad may look fierce in your eyes, but in the eyes of your friends and loved him look good.

10. Dad slowly got friends, but he was friends for life
 

11. Dad was really pleased to help someone ... but it is difficult to ask for help.

12. Daddy in the kitchen. Make cooking such as scientific exploration. He had formulas and formulas by own, and only he himself who understands how to solve complicated equations. And the result? ... . Mmmmhhh ... 'is not too disappointing' ^ _ ~
 

13. My father probably never touched a broom when he was young, but he can learn fast.

14. Father knows best how to push the swing high enough to make you happy but do not be afraid.

15. Dad would love to buy you food after he got home from work, although he could not even part of it food
 

16. Dad always pray that we be successful in the world and the here after, although we rarely even rarely pray
 

17. I will give you the best seat with the lift you dibahunya, when the parade passed.

18. Dad will not pamper you when you're sick, but he will not sleep all night. Who knows you need it.

19. Dad thought he deserved to stand alone, so she did not want to tell you what you should do, but he would express a sense of not agreed.

20. My father believed people should be on time. that's why he was always waiting for you earlier.

22. He would forget what he wanted, to be able to give you what you need .....

23. He stopped what he was doing, if you want to talk ...

24. He is always thinking and working hard to pay your spp every semester, even if you never helped her calculate how many wrinkles on his forehead ....

25. Daddy weight lifting from your shoulders with his hands around the burden it ....

26. Dad would say, just ask your mother 'When he wanted to say, no'
 

27. Dad never got angry, but his face will be very red-faced when her daughter stayed at a friend's house without permission
 

28. And he almost never gets mad, except when his son caught smoking bathroom.

29. Dad said, it's okay to take a little risk provided you afford to lose what do you expect '
 

30. The best compliment for a father was when he saw you doing something good just like the way ....

31. My father is more proud of the achievements, rather than his own achievements ....

32. Dad just will menyalamimu when first leaving you to go wander the house, because if he might hug she could never let go.

33. Dad does not like to shed a tear .... when you were born and she hears you cry for the first time, he was very pleased as to exit the water from his eyes (ssst.. but again this is not crying)
 

34. when you were little, she can hold you to expel your fear ... when you dream will kill the monster ...

35. but ..... it turns out she can cry and could not sleep all night, when her beloved daughter at the shoreline did not give the news for almost a month.

36. My father once said: 'if you want to get a sword sharp and high quality, do not look for the market especially junkman, but come and book directly from the clever iron. the same goes with love and friends in your life, if you want mendaptkan future love of your life, then ask and order in the Creator '
 

37. For the future of her son's father told him:,, become more powerful and stronger than me, choose a mother to your children someday a better woman than your mother, give a better in-law and my grandchildren, than what have I give to you '
 

38. And for the future of her daughter's father told him: 'Do not cry baby though you're a woman, be my little angel and the angel is always best to father your children someday! men who can protect you more protection than my father, but you should never replace the position of father in your heart '
 

39. My father insisted, that your children will have to behave better than you used to ....

40. Dad can make you believe in yourself ... because he believe in you ...

41. Dad did not try to be the best, but he's just trying to do my best ....

42. And most importantly ... Dad never stop you for the love of God, even he would spread a thousand roads for you to reach his love, because he too loves you because of his love.
 

Children and parents do not recognize each other?

eight things to think about a child's parents:
 

1. Children have always thought his parents' favoritism toward his brother.

2. Children have always felt constrained by her parents.

3. Children always feel smarter and denied the advice of her parents.

4. Children have always felt that he was not loved.

5. Children always take into account everything he has done for his parents.

6. Children always fuss about inheritance from his parents.

7. Children always underestimate the work that has been given.

8. Children are always snapped her parents as she spoke.


But there are 8 the fact also that there are no known children what they perceived their parents as well do the same.

1. Children do not understand if his knowledge behind his parents always praise the child in front of another brother.

2. Children do not understand that all parents are done only for the good of their children.

3. Children do not understand that her parents had a life harder than his son.

4. Children do not understand that in every prayer and hope of parents in the child's name is always remembered.

5. Parents are never told his sacrifice for her child birth.

6. Parents have been preparing for the estate to her son, only a matter of right time to give it up.

7. Parents are not willing to see her child go through life - difficult in others.

8. Children do not understand every time he snapped, hearts of parents will vibrate and cause a shorter age.

Source: Association of Handsome 'n Beautiful People
 

"Nyepi" Balinese New Year

Nyepi comes from the quiet, meaning quiet or silent, or Wu Wei as stated by Lao Tse in the teachings of Taoism in Chinese philosophy, namely allowing nature in a single day to conduct its activities themselves spontaneously and naturally without being influenced by man (Mel Thomson, 1999 : 173), not only that humans also stop its activities for one day for his body was run in accordance with its own law, because it has activities for one full year. On March 5, 2011 evening, the whole of Bali will be dark, silent throughout Bali, all Hindu people still, to live "Nyepi Day welcoming Caka New Year 1933". Both natural and man in one day was quiet rest, reviewed, investigated, reflected, deposited as one of the characteristics of the philosophy of science, thereby increasing shortage would seem, what lies beneath the surface will be lifted up so that propriety and fairness will open and they seem, both natural and ourselves, both macrocosm and microcosm, for then there is the recovery process again and ready to support and rotate the back wheel of life on earth.

Like a battery that is continuously used after the full year, it should be in charge or charged back for energy can be used to support the following activities, to move other equipment in accordance with their respective functions.

 This process occurs not only in human beings alone but the entire existence of this nature occupies. Therefore, the change of motion is determined by the presence of occupying all of this nature, including nature itself. Therefore there must be cooperation, there must be synergy between each other in harmony. From here it was obvious how to harmonize it must underlie attitudes, steps and movements that will be done together, because the relationship between micro-and macrocosm, between man and nature is seen as an organic unity (Ramanuja: Vedic 1977: 50-51), where motion and step which one will affect the other, mutually affect each other. Only in a harmonic motion which allows the joint, as all who have a chance in a fair and equal to the change in the target, there is no discrimination, no one feels the most important and ignore the others. (Gde Aryantha Soethama, 2003).

The series of ceremonies in celebrating this Nyepi Melasti ritual begins with the first, the Tawur Agung Kesanga, Mebuu-buu, Ogoh-ogoh Parade, Peak Nyepi and Ngembak Geni.

 Melasti/Mekiyis/Melis

 Melasti, is purifying equipment praying, sacred symbols of God, whether in the form of statues which is a manifestation of God is immanent, God as comprehended adherents. Statues that are in place of worship (temples, pemerajan, holy places) was carried out to sea by his people to get the cleanup, remove impurities. Sea believed to be a place for cleaning or removing impurities. When we see the concept of Tri Hita Karana, the ceremony was a manifestation of Hita to "Parahyangan", clean Parahyangan, holy places.

Tawur Agung Kesanga 

The second ceremony followed a series of ceremonies Yadnya Bhuta, Tawur Kesanga or Tawur Great, a ceremony to holying universe, non-human universe, or macrocosm. This is done a day before Hari Raya Nyepi, where in the afternoon at 12.00 done at Pecaruan Catus Patha / Perempatan Agung (ceremony performed diperempatan road directly related to mountain and sea) to neutralize the energies that after one year are moving the wheel of life, already experiencing imbalances, to make it balanced again. Intersection is symbolized as a meeting place for positive energies and negative, then that the ceremony was performed at that place. Bhuta Yadnya ceremony is always used as the opening ceremony in any other ceremonies (wedding, piodalan, the inauguration of the building). Nyepi Day is Bhuta Yadnya ceremony that stands alone without transplanted in another ceremony, a ceremony largest Yadnya Bhuta. Therefore this ceremony was held on Tilem (month off) sasih Kesanga (nine months = roughly around March), the ceremony is also referred to as Tawur to Sanga. (Mas Muterini, 1988).

The ingredients used are caru appropriate levels where its implementation. Pecaruan also be undertaken at each yard of the house, temples, offices, village halls and all places in Bali.

 Pecaruan in addition to balancing the positive and negative force in nature is also for menyomia (meruwat) the Butha kala (the negative forces of nature in the form of jinn, devils and the like) into a positive force and protector.

In the afternoon at every house mebuu-buu performed the ceremony, the ceremony is an event mebuu-buu which is a symbol of the expulsion of evil spirits yard area. Head of the family will bring the old palm leaves that were burned, give off an onion, kencur and the like, accompanied by all the inhabitants of the house is sprinkled Tirtha (holy water) from the Great Pretending in Bali, Pura Tirtha of the village and tirta tawur agung. In addition, residents also hitting the objects that emit sound, such as clappers, panic, or any pan that aims expel evil spirits from the house.

 Pengerupukan and parade of Ogoh-ogoh

Afternoon early evening (twilight), followed by a ceremony conducted by Pengrupukan around carrying torches, holy water, the sounds, as symbols to neutralize the negative forces, the power-kekutan evil in contemporary form, such as corruption, robbery, theft, rape, fraud, greed and so forth, which the society is symbolized by "ogoh-ogoh" (a kind of giant sculptures made from sterofoam) that carried and finally burned at the end of the ceremony. The ceremony is the concept of Tri Hita Karana, go on sanctification "weakening", the area of land, settlements, fields, workplaces and so forth. 

Ogoh-ogoh is a large statue depicting negative traits or illustrate a story crushing negative. Ogoh-ogoh is a work of art in the making requires funds that are not small. After ending the pengerupukan ogoh-ogoh will be burned as a symbol of destruction of negative things. today ogoh-ogoh more interesting because the statue can be varied so that it appears to be floating, looks like life, can rotate and so forth.

  

Peak Nyepi / Sipeng 

The next day is followed by a Penyepian third event, namely "meditation", for each of the Hindus that there are three options that can be taken, the first can choose to implement upawasa (not eat), can also choose not to sleep or stay up (jagra) or chose not to speak (mona Brata). But that must be in the celebration of Nyepi is conducting Chess Brata Penyepian consisting of amathi Geni (do not turn on the light / fire including the fire of anger and lust in itself), amathi work (unemployed), amathi lelanguan (not fun) and amathi lelungaan ( non-traveling). This is believed to provide the ability for everyone to look inward, within one year after doing all the activities that bad or good, thoughtful and tried to see the weaknesses personal self, self-evaluation to be corrected in the new year which will dijelang next day. This is a purification ritual human self, which in the context of Tri Hita Karana is called the "Pawongan".

 Thus in the human effort to enter the Hindu New Year Caka the three components in the Tri Hita Karana (Parahyangan - Palemahan - Pawongan) simultaneously cleaned, purified so that together equal start entering the new year with the same sanctity of capital to get together to play again natural this universe to change as expected together.

Ngembak geni / Ngembak Fire

The next day was the fourth ceremony called Geni Ngembak an event whose meaning turn turn fire fire spirit to become better in the new year, each visit relatives or co-workers or profession, or close friends to forgive each other are sorry for the actions that had probably been cause harm or distress to other people, with a spirit of togetherness, love each other, recognize each other disadvantages of each, correcting back together acts that harm one of the existing ecosystem. (Drafting Team: 'Hinduism', 2004: 108-110). Thus the meaning of Hari Raya Nyepi is the embodiment of the procession from the replacement of Saka Saka New Year 1932 to 1933, with the spirit of togetherness in equality and justice, as the embodiment of "Universal Love" Humanity to others, extends even Valentines Valentines Life Fellow to everything that exists.

 Hindu culture in the form of traditional ceremonies is not a culture that only has aesthetic benefits alone, as something only useful to be presented to local and foreign tourists, and it's not a made for spending money alone, but as a self-reflection about our lives as human beings in this world. Life as a human being in this world are living together with others, living together with other living creatures and the common life is life together in one of Planet Earth the same.

in some places in Bali has a unique tradition in Ngembak Geni as in Banjar Kaja Sesetan who perform the ritual omedan Omed-mouth kiss between young men and women while also there is a tradition that is mekotekan brandishing bamboo sticks to form and then climbed the tower and many more different traditions in each area in Bali.

 Dharma Shanti

Dharma Santhi is the closing celebration of Hari Raya Nyepi series where we each other's Greetings, and give daksina on the Reverend or a saint and give alms to the poor.

Mousetrap

A husband and wife farmers returning home after shopping. When they opened groceries, a rat look closely as he muttered "hmmm ... what food they brought from the market??" 

Apparently, one of which was bought by farmers is a Rat Trap. The absurdly shocked rats.
 

He immediately ran to the cage and yell
 

"There's a Rat Trap in the house .... In the house now is a mousetrap ...."
 

She visited a chicken and yelled "there mousetrap"
 

The chicken said "Mr. Mouse ..., I'm sorry, but it did not affect me"
 

The Rat and went to a Goat yelling.
 

The Goat also said "I also had sympathy ... but there's nothing I can do"
 

Rats then met Beef. He got the same answer.
 

"I'm sorry. But mousetrap is not dangerous for me at all "
 

He then fled into the woods and meets Snake. The serpent says
"Ahhh ... a small rat trap will not harm me"
 

Finally, the rats back home with resignation knowing that he would face danger alone.

One night, awakened the homeowner heard a loud noise rang rat trap signifies been victimized.

When viewing a rat trap, was a venomous snake. Snake's tail is caught making increasingly fierce snake attacked his wife and home owners. Although her husband had killed the snake is venomous, the wife did not get saved.

The husband had to take his wife to the hospital and later his wife was allowed to go home but a few days later she remains fever.

He then asked for a chicken claw soup (chicken feet) by her husband.
 

(We all know, chicken claw soup is very useful for reducing fever)
Her husband immediately slaughter the chicken to be cooked leg.

A few days later the pain is not persisted. A friend suggested to eat goat liver.
 

He then slaughtered the goat to take heart.

Still, she does not heal and eventually died.

Lots of people came up at the funeral.

So the farmers have to slaughter the cow to feed the people who mourn.

From a distance ... The Mouse looked at with great sadness. 

A few days later he saw the Rat Traps are not used anymore.
 

Price of a Miracle

Catherine was only eight years old when she heard her father and her mother was talking about his sister, Luna. Luna was terminally ill, and they have attempted to do anything that could be attempted to save lives Luna. Only a very expensive operation which now can only save the life of Luna. It is very ironic because they do not have the cost to perform the operation. 

Catherine heard him say, "Only a miracle can save Luna now."
 

Catherine went to her room and took the piggy bank from her hiding place. Release of the contents of the piggy bank to the floor and count carefully. Its value must be absolutely correct.
 

By bringing some money Catherine slipped out of the house and go to the drugstore down the street. He waited patiently until the pharmacist to give her attention, but the pharmacist was busy serving others and seemed to not want to be disturbed child. Catherine tried to attract the attention of the pharmacist to wiggle his feet but failed. Finally Catherine took a quarter and threw it on the glass counter. Succeed!
 

"What do you need?" Ask the pharmacist with angry voice. " do you know that I was talking with customers?"
 

"But I want to talk with you about my sister," Catherine replied with the same tone.
 

 He was sick and I want to buy a miracle. "
 

"What did you say?" Ask the pharmacist
 

"My Daddy says only a miracle can save her life now, so how much a miracle cost?"
 

"We do not sell miracles. I can not help "the pharmacist replied curtly.
 

"Listen, I have the money to buy it. Let's just say the price is "challenged Catherine
 

A well-dressed man who happened to hear asked, "What kind of a miracle is needed by your sister?"
 

"I do not know" replied Chaterine. The tears started rolling down her cheeks. "I only just know she's really sick and the mother says she needs surgery. But my parents can not afford it. And with this money I will buy a miracle that could help my sister "
 

"How much money do you have?" Asked the man again
 

"$ 10" Catherine replied proudly. And that's all the money I have.
 

"Coincidence" the man said smiling. $ 10, the right price to buy a miracle that can help your sister. "
 

The man then took the money and holding the hand of Catherine, saying, "Bring me see your sister.
 

 I also want to meet sister and your parents. "

Then Catherine invites him into her house and met her parents. The man turned out to dr. Knee Oz, a renowned expert powder. So upon agreement of parents Catherine, Luna was taken to hospital by the dr. Oz for immediate surgery.

Operations carried out without the cost and it was never an old. Finally, Luna healthy and can return home. They are very happy to get a miracle.

"The operation was" whispered her mother. "It is a miracle. I can not imagine how much it costs. " 

Catherine smiled. He knows exactly how much a miracle cost. $ 10 plus a strong belief.
 

Lessons from the Boy Selling Newspapers

That morning as usual I left the morning after the dawn of the home, into storage motorcycle in Cawang, UKI, though often delayed, this time I came early to the place waiting for a bus shuttle that took me into the office, I liked the ride a bus pick up for tired driving from Depok-Cikarang. Intolerant of congestion of the capital.

As usual I sat with fellow colleagues while waiting for pickup. But because I arrived early, came a boy who as usual offers newspapers to all shelter residents.

"Newspaper, newspaper, Kompas, Media, tempo, Republika, news of the city" so cried the boy offered to our newspaper. "Newspapers sir" he offered me to buy a newspaper. "As usual compass one" I asked the usual newspaper I read every morning.

Little hands deftly choosing among a pile I ask Newspapers Newspapers wares.

"This newspaper bang compass" gives newspapers that I asked him, "This is the change?" I said, thrusting money IRD50,000, to him. "OK sir, there must be" immediately removed the change from a dirty bag, "well early in the morning had a lot of money yes" I said to the boy.

"Allhamdulilah bang, my fortune again smoothly" he said with a pleased smile. And after that he too passed offers newspapers to the residents of other shelters.

Today at 5:20, still too long to come pick me, then I took a compass reading newspaper
which I had bought at the newspaper boy craftsman.

Without realizing it I noticed how persistent a newspaper boy handyman is looking for money, by offering merchandise to everyone who came and went after another.

At first glance seem a brave face sweat in the early years had to struggle to earn money by lawful and as a hard worker.

"Newspapers, there are tabloid nova mom, there is news of this celebrity mom, or is this tabloid star, no word artist divorced" she said like a brilliant marketing without giving up her newspaper to offer a middle-aged woman who eventually gave up and bought a tabloid called the boy.

As he noticed a sense of wonder and compassion to the boy, and noticed how persistent he is trying, just look cheery smile that made everyone who offered not angry. There is no slightest sense of despair inside him, although sometimes people who are not offered to buy his newspaper.


A moment may be tired boy offers his newspaper, and she sat beside me, "you are not in school bro," I asked him "no sir, I do not want high school" he said.

"There is no cost bro?" I asked probing, "No sir, though I have my craftsmen Newspapers ideals" he replied, "that is, not with the school you can achieve your goals more easily" I answered.

"I often read the newspaper bang, many people who have high school graduates do not work even bang, aka unemployed. Mending my high school even though I have an income bang "he tried to explain to me. "My brother bang, no school can open the newspaper agent income can be 3-4 billion a month, bang, I read in the daily salary of 700 thousand employees honorary only, so why should I bang school," he asked me I frowned, signed with the answers I might expect to see the little boy is a keen mind, and a crackling that in for me that a scholar. In my heart I justify saying these children, pay city Bekasi job just + /-900rb for high school classes.


I also smiled at the child's answer, then pick up my bus arrived and I left the boy can answer the question without, what our purpose of school, become scholars.?

Because so many scholars are now working out unemployed, had no income, and many also because it can not work that went on S2 with a justifiable reason to spend leisure time and increase the value of selling himself.

But the boy's statement made me realize The newspaper seller, on luck, and goals of the school, which currently I might lose with such a small boy, although I have an income and have an office I pay only human, I am just a worker.

Unlike the little boy, in the early years he was able to become an employer for himself. What a great idea innocent kid The newspaper seller.  Interesting lesson from a boy who every day meet. (EA)
"Lucky God really is not limited to, live our willingness to try to reach" 

"Lessons can be obtained not only in formal education, And the world too much to give a lesson to us"
 

King is honest or stupid

While China remains divided split into several kingdoms, war is something that can not be avoided, a large kingdom will fight each other for showing its power, the fate while small kingdom is a kingdom of a larger struggle and her fate has always been a colonized country.

but Hu kingdom was never colonized by another large royal, whereas hu kingdom is just a small kingdom which his army strength was minimal, and the fact that this kingdom is a kingdom which prospered and led by a king known to be very honest reply.

why the kingdom safe safe Hu ...? Because kingdom Hu geographicaly location that protect it, the kingdom is surrounded by high mountains, and bordered by a river wide enough wing swift reply. the only entrance into the kingdom is through a bridge which crossed over the big river.

this is of course difficult for any large empire who would attack the kingdom hu, a large empire with thousands of troops would be hassle if you have to cross the wide river is especially when crossing the bridge, for any army would be split and disintegrate when crossing the river and will be hu army targets.


But there was only kings who risked his troops to attack the kingdom Hu, king Zhou troops deployed large scale in order to colonize hu kingdom.
and indeed as alleged, for any soldiers who are deployed, while crossing the river they were scattered because they have to try to avoid drifting.
Hu royal warlord who know the country would be attacked immediately prepared his army to block the movement of troops zhou.
but the commander was surprised when the king gave the command,:
"Prepare the troops, but wait until the new river crossing enemy attacked us ..."
"But lord ... ... our troops would not be able to face the troops Zhou, they are more numerous and experienced, the only chance we are attacking them while crossing the river ... ... the time they weaken the power of my lord ...." Said the commander.

"YOU'RE STILL !!!!!! COMMANDER
 I KNOW IF THEY ATTACK WHEN WE cross the river THEN WE WILL WIN, BUT IT IS NOT knight THERETO AND NOT HONEST ... .. WE BETTER WAIT they crossed. "
"But the king ... we can not win if so ...."
"Hear MY COMMANDER... ... ... .. I AM BETTER OFF IN Knights defeated and MUST BE WON WITH THAN AGAINST THE ENEMY IS NOT READY ... !!!!!"
and was eventually defeated and became a royal colony hu Zhou king, king Hu While sentenced to death with decapitated but still maintain the principle of honesty which he believed.

so guys and gals ... .... honestly what is stupid, ... ... ... ?????
 

Sacrifice is considered correct

As an adult, I finally entered the age of marriage, and gradually I got to know the answer to this.

In the early days of marriage, I also just like a mother, trying to keep the family unit, scrubbing pots and cleaning the floor, earnestly trying to maintain his own marriage.

Strangely, I do not feel happy, and my husband own, also seemed unhappy.

I think, probably less clean floors, dishes are not tasty, then, I diligently clean the floor again, and cook with all my heart.

However, it seems, we're still not happy. .

Until one day, when I'm busy cleaning the floor, my husband said my wife, come with me a moment to hear the music!

Expression was not happy with me saying: what do not see there is still half the floor yet again in a mop?

As soon as these words came out, I was lost in thought, words are very familiar in the ears, in marriage my father and mother, mothers are also often say that the same father.

I'm showing the re-marriage the father and mother, as well as repeating the unhappiness in their marriage.

There is some consciousness arises in my heart.

What you want?


I stopped my work for a moment, then looked at my husband, and reminded of my dad ... 

He always did not get a pair that she wanted, Left mother brushing the pan much longer than with her.

Continually working on domestic affairs, is the way the mother in maintaining the marriage, she gave the father a house that is clean, however, rarely accompanied him, was busy taking care of the house, he tried to love my father to do, and how this is to do the housekeeping.

And I, I'm also using my way of trying to love my husband.

I am also the same way as a mother, my marriage seemed to step into the middle of a story, two good people why it is not accompanied with a happy marriage.

Consciousness I made my decision (choice) of the same.

I stopped my work for a moment, then sat beside her husband, accompanied him to hear music, and from a distance, looking at a mop across the floor like staring at the fate of the mother.

I asked my husband: what do you need?

I need you to accompany me to hear music, dirty little house that's okay-lah, I'll swatch maid for you, so you can join me! said my husband.


I think you need a clean house, cook something for you, there is a wash pakianmu .... And I say at once a series of things he needed.

All of it was not important! said my husband. The most I expected was that you can more often with me.

It turned out in vain all the work I do, the results really make me surprised. We continue menikamti needs of each, and I realized it turns out he also has a lot to do the work in vain, we have a way of each how to love, but instead how the two parties.
 

Craftsman Gold and Brass - Lessons about perseverance

In a country, there lived two craftsmen who lived next door.
One of them, is gold craftsmen, while others craftsman brass. Both have long undergone this job, because, this is work inherited hereditary. It has been many things resulting from this work. 

Rings, necklaces, bracelets, chains and strands trimmer, are some of the results of their craft.

Each end of the month, they bring the jobs to the city. Market day, so they used to call that day. They will trade the metal goods, once buy things other purposes for a month. Fortunately, next week, there will be a great guest who came to visit the city, and intends buy goods there. This news certainly makes them happy. Of course, this news will make all the traders make more goods will be sold.

Day and night, the sound of metal to be forged. Each voices, like breath of life for them. Furnaces fire, seemed never extinguished. Firewood that looks hot, as if the spirit both of ignition. Splash-splash the fire that never arise in their pay attention. Both are busy with work respectively. Already dozens of rings, necklaces, chains and a string trimmer that ready for sale. Market Day is approaching. And the day after tomorrow, is the perfect time to go to town.

Market Day has arrived, and both had reached the city. Overlay sheeting has deployed, ready to sign merchandise sold. Both also lined side by side. Behold, metal goods have been produced. But, ah unfortunately, there is a striking contrast between the two. Although made of metal noble, the goods made by the craftsmen of gold appear dull. The colors do not shiny. Screw rough, with the main points of the chain that is not neat knot. As if, the author was a rush.

"Ah, let alone," the utterance that came out when craftsmen brass jewelery friends ask why it looks dull. "Everyone will choose something to sell, for, gold is always better than brass, "said craftsman gold again, "What does it mean pan your made than precious metals that tie, I'll bring more money than you. "Craftsmen brass, just smiled. Perseverance honed metal, making it all seem more shine. Screw fine. The contours of the rings and bracelets homemade look like circle that is not broken. Twists and turns even more delicious decorate chain in eye view. Perseverance, is something that expensive.

 Almost everyone who passed by, do not put attention to the craftsmen of gold. They prefer to come to, and see-saw brass rings and necklaces. Likewise the great guest who is pleased come. They were more like brass objects were compared with precious metals. Therefore, gold was not enough they are interested, and want to buy it. Once again, plastered contrast on the market today. Gold craftsmen stunned silence, and brass craftsmen who smiled pleased.

Today the market is over, and the guests have returned home. Both craftsmen were also has completed clearing merchandise. And presumably, they get a lesson from what they had done that day.
 

DO NOT HATE ME, MOM.....

Twenty years ago I gave birth to a boy, his face was quite handsome but looks a bit stupid. Sam, my husband, gave him the name of Eric. Becoming increasingly apparent that this child is somewhat retarded. I intend to give it to someone else just to be a slave or servant. But Sam prevent bad intentions. Finally I was forced to raise it as well. In the second year after Eric was born I gave birth again to a daughter who pretty tiny. I named Angelica. I am very fond of Angelica, as well as Sam. Often we take him to the amusement park and bought her children's clothes are beautiful, beautiful. But is not the case with Eric. He only had a few set of clothes worn. Sam intends to buy, but I always banned on the pretext of saving the family money. Sam always obey my words.

At the age of 2 years Sam Angelica died. Eric was 4 years old at the time. Our family became increasingly poor to accumulate debt. Finally I took the actions that will make me regret it for life. I left the village of my birth and Angelica. Eric was fast asleep so I left it. Then I lived in a hut after our house sold to pay debts. A year, 2 years, 5 years, 10 years .. has passed since the incident.


I have married again with Brad, an adult male. Our marriage age has stepped on the fifth year. Thanks to Brad, my bad qualities of the original hot-tempered, selfish, and snobbish, changing little by little become more patient and loving. Angelica has aged 12 years and we send him in a residential treatment school girls. Nothing else remember about Eric and nothing else is remembered.

Until one night. Night where I had a dream about a child. His face was rather handsome, but looked pale. He looked at me. Smiling, she said, "Auntie, Auntie know my mama? I hoick cekali on Mommy! "After saying this he started to walk away, but I held it," Wait ..., like I know you.

What's your name sweet child? "
"My name Elic, Auntie."
"Eric? Eric ... Oh my God! You really Eric? "
I immediately gasped and woke up. Guilt, remorse and various other strange feeling struck me right away. Suddenly flashed back to the story's ironic that there used to like a movie that played my head. Only now did I realize how bad I dulu.Rasanya act like want to die just then.

 Yes, I have to die ... die ... die ... When staying seinchi knife distance will I scratched into the wrist, a sudden shadow crossed Eric back in my mind. Yes Eric, Eric ... Mommy will pick you up
That afternoon I parked my blue car next to a hut, and Brad with a view of surprise at me from the side. 

"Mary, what really happened?"
"Oh, Brad, you're definitely going to hate me after I tell you things I have done before." TTpi I tell it as well with sobs. ..
Apparently God really good to me. He has given a husband who is so kind and understanding. After tangissaya subsided, I came out of the car followed by Brad from behind. My eyes stared at the shacks that stretched two feet from my face. I began to remember how I ever lived in the shack a few months old and Eric .. Eric Eric ... I left there 10 years ago. With sadness I ran over and opened the door of the hut made of bamboo. So dark ... Not seen anything! Slowly my eyes began to get used to the darkness in the small room. But I did not find anyone inside. There is only a piece of cloth lying battered on the ground floor.

I took while watching her closely ... The eyes begin to glaze, I recognize it as a piece of cloth worn secondhand clothes worn Eric once daily. .. A few moments later, with a feeling hard to describe, I was out of the room ... My tears flow
with swift. At that time I just stay quiet. A moment later I was and he started up the car to leave the place. However, I saw someone in the back of our car. I was surprised because the atmosphere was very dark. Then looked into the faces of people that are so dirty. Apparently he was an old lady. Back I gasped in surprise when he suddenly admonished me with a husky voice.

"Heii ...! Who are you?! What are you here?! "
With courage, I asked, "Mom, what the mother knew a boy named Eric who used to live here?" He replied, "If your mother, you are truly cursed woman! Did you know, 10 years ago since you left here, Eric kept waiting for his mother and called out, '... Mommy, mommy! " Because no heart, I sometimes feed him and I asked her to stay Together. Although I am poor and just work as scavengers, but I will not leave my child like that!

 Three months ago, Eric left the piece of paper. He learned to write every day for years just to write this for you ... " 

I also read the writing on the paper ...
"Mommy, why does Mommy do not ever come back again ...? 

Mommy's mad at Eric, yes? Mom, who let Eric go, but Mommy had to promise that Mommy's not going to get angry again at Eric. Bye, Mom ... "I screamed hysterically read the letter.

"Mom, please tell me ... tell me where is he now? I promise I will meyayanginya now! I will not leave him again, Mom! Please tell ..!!"

Brad hugged my body is shaking hard.

"Lady, it was too late. The day before the lady came, Eric had died. He died in the back of this shack. Her body was very thin, he is very weak. Just for the sake of waiting he was willing to stand behind this shack without he dare enter into it. He was afraid if her Mommy came, her Mommy would go again if the view is in there ... He just hopes to see his Mommy in the back of this shack ... Despite pouring rain, with a weak condition he continued to insist on waiting for Mistress there.

Madam, you are not unforgivable sin! " 

I then passed out and not remember anything anymore. (True story in northern ireland)